Originally Posted by
luciddreamrgrl 
After this statement, I wonder why you are still with him. He is lying, you "hate" him, and you don't even feel like you can react to things any more. Whats left?
I know you say your not ready yet, but when will that be? How far do you have to be pushed by him? How miserable do you have to become before you can take action?
Well the reason I don't want to react is that what is the point? I say you are drinking again and you promised you'd stop. Then what? I have to be ready to kick him out and I want to be ready. I'm just not.
So if I bring it up and then it turns into a fight, isn't that playing into the whole problem?