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Old 07-05-2009, 08:33 PM
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Chrysalis123
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Originally Posted by mentallyexh View Post
How can he ALWAYS make me feel like I am in the WRONG - and no matter what he does to me it is OK! PLease help me understand this!
If a crazy stranger came up to me on the street and accused me of something I did not do, I would let the comment roll off my back. I would walk away, continue my day, and not give a thought to what that person accused me of.

Well, I have finally come to that place with my XAH! I view him as that person on the street. He throws things my way but I try not to catch them and not throw them back at him.

He cannot control how I feel or react. I get to do that. It was a long hard process for me to not let his quacking bother me anymore and I slipped a lot. I'm not 100% with it but am so much better and stronger. Individual counseling and Alanon helped me.
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