Thread: What you hear here, when you leave here, let it stay here, here here
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Old 06-27-2009, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by kj3880 View Post
The issue was on my mind recently when a friend, Terry, told me "I'm really worried about F." F is a mutual friend/addict in NA with us. So I asked her "Oh, is he ok?" Terry said "I dunno, he shared something really bad in the midnight meeting last night." I asked what it was, concerned. Terry said "I can't tell you, that would be violate our core tradition...."
IMHO had your friend told you this, it would not violate the 12th tradition. No one's anonymity would be threatened at all, all 3 of you were already aware the other 2 are in NA.

There may be other legitimate reasons not to tell you, but if that is the case why bring it up in the first place?
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