May we all simply find peace in ourselves as we travel down the road we must travel. I wrap my STBX in love and in light and I give him to the universe. I can't change him. I could never change him. I can only change me. I will always love him and hope for him. I look forward to the day I will love myself just as much.
Welcome! It sounds like you have a good understanding of the situation. I look forward to learning more about you as you travel the recovery road. There is a lot of great information here at SR. I recommend you read the stickies at the top of the forums. There is some great info, some good resources and some classic threads that might even make you chuckle.
Again, sorry for the cirucumstances, but glad you're here.
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