I just had that experience 2 days ago. Because the people are so drunk, they want you to go, because they know or have an understanding that you dont drink. So being good people pleaser we go there, and then the cycle conti nues. If you want to talk further i would love to, im only 10 days sober, and i didnt do the same thing i always do at the grocery store, but i did give my hisband an ear full the next day when he was sober. 1KitGer