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Old 06-24-2009, 12:17 AM
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anubus
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Hi Scarlet,
I am so sorry for you, that you didn;t get the closure you needed before he passed.
You know, nobody really knows what is in a person's heart & mind......especially an A's.
He may very well have felt more blame & apologetic attitude than you will ever know. Men in general, and moreso A's, have a hard time expressing their feelings. Perhaps he felt it deeply, but also for whatever weird reason felt it would be "unmanly" to admit to you. You know, guys have such strange egos (sorry any guys reading!).
I hope you can find the peace you need to come to grips with this. I'm sure he loved you very much, and sometimes the most powerful words are not actually SPOKEN.

Hugz
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