Help me help myself
I continue to get sucked into the manipulation, lies, and BS that STBXAH (no, it's STILL not signed off by the judge) has to dish out. He'll call, leave a message making me believe it's about one of the kids, and then when I call back he starts in. He then, turns it all around and says I'M the one pushing HIS buttons.
There are a muiltitude of things, like getting his name off the insurance, bank accounts, child info, etc that have to be worked out. He claims I stole some of his mail, including his Father's Day card from his mom. I believe it's probably held up in the post office since he put in for a change of address. So he is refusing to sign a reimbursement check that has both of our names on it for over $1000 on expenses that I had paid for. Manipulation and control.
I am sick, sick, sick. I want this over and right now it feels like it may never be, what with the kids and all. Any sage advice from those of you who have been there?