Is there a bird that is constantly changing? Because at times I feel like soaring yet other times I still want to hide out in the nest!
As far as lessons learned....if I had to pick one it would be putting the focus back on me. For a long time I lived for him, my AH. He was the center of my universe, and with him came the insanity and chaos.
Maybe it sounds selfish, but when I began to live my life for me again, so many other things started to fall into place. Most importantly, I feel more like "me" again.
Sometimes I feel like I'm leaving him behind but mostly I feel that he needs to find his way just as I am finding mine.