In order to forgive my parents I had to get off my "high horse." I had to give up the idea that I was somehow "better" than them and that they had "wronged" me. (Same with my AH, BTW) We are all human. My parents were raised by people who harmed them. They, in turn, harmed me. I have no doubt that I have also harmed my children in many ways. I am no better than anyone. I simply do the best I can with what I have. And as I learn more, I do better.
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