Thank you Ago. I also learn a lot from you and I think it would be easier if AHs were just the bad traits, the deceit, the abuse - it would be easier to let them go. Sigh.
You have a unique perspective around this forum, thank you for taking the time to write your story. I am very glad you have so many years of true sobriety under your belt. You have truly come a long way, and keep striding forward...
Have a good night!