Originally Posted by
nowwhat 
It ruined my day. I can't avoid this pool. This is what me and my kids DO during the summer. I paid for it. It's "mine." He could go anywhere.
He is a creep.
He knows you go there and thats probably why he went too. Ugghhh is right! I live in a small town and fear everytime I leave my home that I will see him out somewhere.
I guess you have 2 choices and either one isn't easy....1. Don't go to the pool. 2. Put a smile on your face, a cute suit on, find some great friends that won't sit by him, grab a book or an ipod, and go and show him you don't care if he is there.
For me, option 1 is much easier and probably what I would want to do, but I am really trying to exercise my independence so I would strive for number 2.
Hang in there.