Well I have a 'news flash' for AH.
You can't make any one not drink and you can't make any one drink.
His not drinking, I M H O right now is so he can again manipulate and say "see I stopped, just proves I can stop any time I want to, so I am going to drink."
He's is quacking. I am glad you are starting to take care of you.
Just a question ............................. have you tried some Al-Anon meetings yet? They will be great for you to take care of you.
J M H O
Love and hugs,