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Old 06-12-2009, 12:38 PM
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bluejay6
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Oh, so sorry....this is tearing apart your psyche.

Until we really finally understand addiction, we continue to think that we can change things by using just the right words. We keep thinking that if only we can find the magic words or actions, then the addict will come around, he'll finally understand and then he'll say "I'm so sorry. I'm an addict, I'm messed up, and I am on my way to a 90-day rehab."

It is so sad, and tragic, but nothing you say is going to change things for the better, and worse: what you say will be twisted and held against you.

You are threat to his addiction, his grandiosity, his tyranny toward anyone who dares question him.

You are in severe emotional danger, Mentally. Stick with us.
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