welcome to s.r. you have taken the first step. keep coming back. the addict will do anything & everything to get the drug. it only gets worse. read around, find a meeting for you to go to. learn to take care of you. we r all here for you. you did not CAUSE it, you can not CONTROL it & you can not CURE it. he will not get clean until he gets ready. it will only get worse. prayers for u both,