Originally Posted by
justtired 
If he's not ready to quit, nothing you do can make him or help him. You have to be very tired of living like this. I think this is an opportunity for you.
Focus on that. An opportunity for YOU. Of course you want your husband to change, but you can't make that happen. But you can change you. What do you miss about your life before the drug chaos? Are there things you stopped doing? Do you daydream about things you don't think you can have or achieve? Well.....CHANGE IT! Make it happen for you.
My life became my husband's addiction and I didn't realize it until he was out of the house and out of my life. THEN I realized that I had some work to do on ME.
Be selfish. Take care of you. You deserve it.