When I read the posts of mothers and their A sons or daughters I get really scared cuz I do not know if I would be able to detach if it were my kids instead of my husband.
When I FIRST realized what was going on with my hubby my FIRST instinct was to take my kids and run. For the parents on here my heart just breaks for them.
In my book the parents on here are neck & neck with the RA as to who has the most inner strength. I am just glad that I have not had to walk in either of their shoes cuz I think I would stumble around for years before I even got CLOSE to getting it right.