One day at a time Katie, you can do it! All my life I thought I had to have a man in my life that I wasn't 'complete' w/o one and there was always men I'd be ashamed to say how many; well I've not had a man in my life nor any close companions in over 2 years and I'm happier than I've ever been. I've spent the last 2 years getting to know Judy and as I've cleaned up my life I've discovered I really LIKE myself! I'm no 'spring chicken' either, I'm 52 and the chances of meeting a good man, in good shape, with a good job, who doesn't drink, are pretty slim, Dallas is a very young city, but if it happens I'll be ready; and if it doesn't that's fine because I love my life the way it is. Be good to YOURSELF Katie you deserve it.