What a beautiful thing to envision, Mrs. Magoo. I, too, have most certainly thwarted God's plans from time to time with my suspicions. I do try to remember that God will take care of my husband and has his own plans for him, but sometimes I butt in! So easy to do, I think. I will keep the picture your friend suggested to you on my heart and try to live by those words. This forum is wonderful. I had forgotten how encouraging it can be relating to others in the same situation. Thanks so much, all!