I'm very aware of the fact that everything that's happened to me - good or bad - has made me who I am, and that includes alcoholism.
I'm not grateful for it any more than I'm grateful for my cerebral palsy - I think that's pushing the happy happy joy joy sunshine train too far - but both have helped me become me....and I kinda like me these days....so it's not entirely a negative thing.
And I
am grateful to be alive.
Originally Posted by
Katie09 
I just want him to be thoughtful, loving, kind and considerate. And when he is not, I drink.
That's your choice tho Katie. And it's a bad choice when you look at the results, and think about alternatives.
And as for whether normies or alkies do more damage - it doesn't matter.
The only damage we can do anything about is our own, surely?
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