Originally Posted by
brokenrockstar 
Thank you all for your insight and support. I needed those HONEST words of advice. We are going to set ground rules, last shot. I need to make an attempt if he is just to prove to myself that I gave IT ALL. If he can make it and we are a "happy" story, then so be it. If our last attempt doesn't work, at least I can say... I tried.
The "I tried" part is important for many of us here. It was to me also.
And please know, that I for one will be praying that it does work.