I hope you remember:
Active A's aren't in love as you might want to be.
He'll be the same eventually with the new woman too. Probably worse this time as he is progressing.
It is HIM, not you. He will do it again to her after she can't live up to his ideal image either. No one will be able to stay on his pedestal and put up with drinking/lying.
YOU told me these things before!! And btw they helped me a great deal.
Because they are not words just to make you feel good, they are true.
I hope you remember ALL the bad times you passed because of him, and him in ALL HIS WORST moments. He is not now, who you wish he were. The future wife is not getting your prince charming. She is getting an active AH in denial. Is that what YOU would want?
Didn't think so!! I hope you find great ways to treat yourself not only today but this whole weekend, week, upcoming months and all this year and future years and the rest of your life, because as anvil says:
YOU DESERVE THE VERY BEST!!
Do not be fooled by temporary "down" feelings.... this will pass and soon you will be building a brand new life.
