If I believed in the idea of alcohol police I'd want one that wouldn't let me have any drinks, bored or not, Katie. First red flag.
Been there done that, from both sides - there's resentment (from both partners) and there's too much responsibility for your bf...and not enough for you.
No external factor ever worked for me. If it was imposed upon me, I bucked.
Making your partner a policeman might just end yr relationship.
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