kathyrn, I asked that question for one reason: my RAD has to focus on her own issues or she will be dragged down. So will I for that matter. I'm still concerned about my loved ones and the things that affect them, though. I've just learned to say my prayers and trust they'll work through whatever.
I filled my RAD in on some family stuff a few minutes ago, but it was a FYI kind of thing. We both know if we start discussing other people's problems, we're in danger of obsessing. My RAD is honestly better at this than I am. She inches towards the door if I do that.
As far as your son goes, parenting differences can become huge problems. Maybe that's something to bring up at your next counseling session?