Keep your eye on the goal.....peace and serenity. Try not to be distracted by the drama.
BTW, one of my huge Aha-moments was when I realized how often I had been manipulated by the words, " but, I love you." He always knew he could hook me with that......until I finally made a real decision to move on, love or no love. It wasn't, after all, about love. It was about respect.
Stay strong,
Babs