Sofardown, you did the right thing by telling them to leave. It sounds to me like they are both using. Not only pot and pills, but coke, and tweeking is methamphetamine. I don't know much about it, but I do know it's really bad for you. I think it makes you feel real powerful when your on it. I'm not sure so don't quote me. It all sounds pretty serious to me. I know how you feel because my son had to be told he cannot come back to my house after his drug abuse. He is clean now, but it was 3 years of total chaos, and heartbreak. I sure hope your son figures out that his drugs are going to ruin every good thing in his life. Your a good mom, but being tough is the best thing you can do for him right now. Tough Love is the answer. Go to Naranon. They will help you cope, and give you some tools for coping. :ghug3