my roomie now is another gal...it doesn't make anything easier for me...in fact it is harder?
Got up took out the trash (took it out last night too but roomie got in a RARE mood and cleaned), washed dishes, (did those last night too)
I always like what I call the "common area" rule...the common areas..living room, kitchen, bathroom are always kept up out of respect because they are shared....whatever your bedroom looks like is no one else's business.
So I need to work on minding my business and making my bedroom my sanctuary.