Originally Posted by
gerryP 
However, a lecture doesn't seem like a lecture if it's from someone who really does care about you and have your best interests considered really...does it? "Lecture" seems to have a negative connotation.
Anytime someone tries to tell someone what to do, that to me is a lecture. Let's not forget this is the
Internets (thank you George). As such, best to tread lightly, IMHO. We're adults here. Like my BF says, you're a big girl and can make your own decisions.
