Originally Posted by
gerryP 
Ka...dee, ka....deee, Ka..deee, that's stupid. Sheesh!
I would lecture, but I'm tired and I wouldn't know where to begin... :-)
Well, to each his own, respectfully said. Where is the value in lecturing? It has never done me any good. I seek to support and accept no matter where someone is at, unless I see that person drinking heavily in which I will give a big lecture! However, it still isn't my place to try to control. Much like Alanon, I guess.
My BF is really pretty hands off and doesn't bother lecturing me anymore. He did that for a long time and all it caused was a problem. It didn't help either of us one bit. He works in mental health with plenty of people with SA problems and knows it's up to the person to take the bulls by the horn. So I come from this perspective
