daisy...when i post...especially if it is something dificult...i find that i will get a lot of responses that seem unhelpful. Sometimes condencing, sometimes based on untrue assumptions....
BUT...and this is big....i also get alot of responses that hit home, that streach me to think in new ways...
In fact i think when i respond to posters i generally talk about my own expereince with the issue...so sometimes i suspect it isn't helpful to them as thier case is different, I don't know them and sometimes *hangs head* i am condesinding.....
I started a thread in F&F which lead me to contact several members by pm...and which gives me some base support with people i related to adn taht can be helpful to me in learning one on one....I love group support, but alot of times it is really individual interaction that opens me to knew ideas and where i can share enough information to actually recieve help that is helpful and appropirete.
But please...keep sharing here as well
