I have been checking in over there to see what others are saying, but I don't think I'll be posting there again. The last response I got to my original post (which I made the day after I found out about M's heroin addiction) was really pretty offensive to me. The poster referred to me very condescendingly as "my dear" and stated flatly that "without a 12-step program he will never succeed" which really wasn't all that helpful.
Someone also said that taking the Subs without a prescription was just as bad as doing the heroin, which I think is bull. Granted, it's not an ideal situation...but it's definitely not as bad as doing heroin. So I think I'll stick here for now, if no one minds
I've found you to be a much less judgmental bunch so far!