OK...DK... a bit of alanon advise....
My son doesn't do anything much to do anything and he has no job...
Now...actually to try and teach him differently would probably be best for him...be the right mom thing to do....
but i can't live that way..drives me bonkers and just about ruined our relationship.
He doesn't help me do housework...I can't change him...it's his problem if he is 50 with no job, no skills, and no mom to live with (when i die is what i mean). None of this has anything to do with my life.
So...i do what i need to do for me to be happy..do the dishes, clean...insist on being able to use my basement...i pay the bills afterall...last night i was running late..totally because i was busy playing with my friends...he was hungry and there wasn't any food....really not my problem...i droped a 20 on the counter as i ran out to play with friends some more...up to him to sort it out...
We live quite well this way...not painful most of the time....
ok..i've got the silver ware soaking, i'm gonna pick up some more trash and maybe even get the vacume out
