I got sober my way and have never used any formal program, never had a sponser (well temporarily for like 3 days) I went to about 10-12 AA meetings in the beginning and that gave me a good start but it wasn't for me as I'm not much of a social person and prefer to be alone. I've been sober since 9-1-07 which isn't that long but if you want to check in with me I'd be happy to be here for you and encourage you.
Judy