Krhea75, Everytime I stepped in with my son, I interfered with GOD's plan. But, I am a mother, and I couldn't help myself. I kept following him, and even pulled him out of a crack den. I could have been killed. When I finally gave up and let go, he put himself in treatment, and he is still there 2 months later and doing great. It's up to him. If he is old enough that you can't get any information from the treatment center about him. He is old enough to find his own way. Don't let him manipulate you anymore. I did it for 2 years. I finally woke up, and let him find his own way.