Jim is trying to play mind games with everyone. The alcoholic label was invented by AA so it has everything to do with definitions. Its not like there's a word for alcoholic in every langauge and culture. Its exclusively BB talk. Once you identify as an "alcoholic" then the "alcoholic" solution is only possible through AA.. Since AA invented the word in the first place, it will always have one up on the other person. It's like asking someone if they're a sinner or not. Well, how can u be when there's no such thing as sin??? Alcoholism is not alcohol addiction. Alcoholism is an outdated stigmatizing concept that brings shame, fear, and self-loathing to so many people that it should be abolished.