digger...well, i am single, but i don't date...but from a woman's perspective i would say...I see two reasonable options here...
one is tell her you aren't comfortable with drinking at the moment....see how she reacts...if it bothers her, maybe she isn't the one for you???? Not that it would always be that way, but i would expect a man i dated to be ok with occationally not being able to drink cause i was in a bad space..just as i would "give someone some space" if they were having a bad day...
The other is take your own car and meet her. I mean this is the 2009 right??? I'm pretty old fasion and i like to feel like it's a date, but i've been picked up in a car by men when it wasn't a date and i don't think the fact we came in seperate vehicles would like be some sort of big no no.....although i would personally like option one better
