Dear MyItalianLove,
I suspect that you are more than a little in love with this man...in fact, is he Italian? If so, and if you decide to continue in this relationship, it may be that there are reasons you prefer drama in you life right now. Are there things in your own life that actually need attention, but you are putting it aside to think a lot about him? Or perhaps, although you are at peace with your current boyfriend, you may not really be in love with him, and this other relationship is more compelling. If that's the case, just be honest with yourself and get single for a while.
Trust me, there are men that you can fall in love with that are not drinkers. And you don't need one man to get free of another that just doesn't quite fill the bill. Know what I mean?
Love,
KJ