Wrkinrose, Welcome to SR! I, too, am the mother of an AD (addicted daughter). I found my way to the rooms of Al-anon 9 years ago, and believe me when I say, it saved my life. I was too embrasessed to talk to anyone about this, and was headed toward a nervous breakdown. Addiction is addiction in my book, whether it be drugs or alcohol, so I'd say yes you are in the right place, and you will find the sharing of experience, strength and hope in the rooms of Al-anon to be very beneficial to you.
Sending you hugs from one mom to another.
Chris