Hey Deadboy.
If that wasn't the nmae you had chosen for yourself, I would have given it to you.
I'll cut to the chase since I've read through the thread and everyone has spelled it out to you. Why? because we have ALL been there, right down to and including learning to hide it better.
On one level I understand that it's been two months, but it has ONLY been two months. You mentioned that you have a blast with her when she is sober and that she is a great person, but there are a lot of women out there that you could have a blast with and are always sober and lots of women out there who are great people.
I can understand those who stick around hoping to help when they have a history with their spouse or long time relationship, but you have only really met this woman. What do you think is going on in you that wants to take her and her addiction on?
Dating is essentially a weeding out process , not a work in progress project.
My best to you DB, honestly. I think you have a lot of thinking to do here and some action needs to follow for YOU.