Gwen, I know that you posted this b/4 I added to my last post. I hope you'll go back and read the addition.
My AD has been going thru something similair, that's why for me, your post hit home. I believe that your recovery from drugs is in your favor. Perhaps the info I posted will give you some resources.
She only has 4+ months clean, no job, no car, no license, she DID find help.
Good luck & God Bless.