Today she got home at 10am and said she was tired and layed down and slept when I finally got her on the phone at NOON. She is so lucky she has so much flexibility in her job. She asked if I was worrying about her (probably because she saw the several caller IDs on her phones) and I said YES and that I wanted to make sure she was OK. She came back and said dont worry about me, I've managed OK on my own for the past 35 years.....