I went to the AA meeting BUT it wasnt the family and friends one I needed to go to (oh well, it was interesting as they covered chapter 8 which some people had trouble with). The other meeting is Sat night. I told her I went and she wanted to know why I didnt tell her I was going - it was a last minute decision I made I told her.
I asked her tons of questions and she answered them all - she was in rehab twice - 1st time 2 weeks and 2nd time 30 days. She told me the full story and it seems true with lots of details - too many to explain here!
Then after all this discussion I went to bed - she was sober. At midnight she called and was trashed. I decided to go visit her - she was passed out on the couch when I got there and there was 2 empty bottles of wine on the counter.......depressing. I helped her to her bed.