Yes 2 hrs but we see each other like every other day.....we reciprocate driving to/from each other. Is it a healthy relationship? It's an incredible relationship - we connect totally, have a blast, etc. It appears that she drinks at home when alone (i.e. bored). I told her it bothers me. She said she wouldn't do it. For the most part she hasn't that I know of (she went like 2 weeks w/o doing it but then did it again) and the frequency has been getting less. Last time was Friday, she spent most of the day in bed Saturday. I came over Saturday, she was upset, I held her and didn't really belabor the point too much. I didn't want to say the wrong things....
Am I ready to take this on???? I am because I see her most of the time sober and she is a wonderful person. The binges now are once every 1-2 weeks, whereas before they were 3 times a week or so it seemed.