Hmmm. You live 2 hours away from her?
You have only been dating two months?
This doesn't sound like the healthiest relationship for you to be in.
She seems to have a drinking problem.
I also was a stay at home wine drinker.
It takes longer for us to hit bottom as we do most of the damage to ourselves.
She has to be ready to quit and even then, it is a long haul. You ready for that?