I think this has been a good discussion, too.
Imagine how boring this place would be if we all thought the same.
Bam, speaking to your OP, it really doesn't matter how you get/stay sober, so long as you do. I don't 'do' AA, but I do read and use alot of what they say. I also come to the secular forum and steal ideas from you guys.
Keep on, keepin' on, Bam. You're okay.