I was going out with my best friend's wife's friend, we were together for a year and a half. During that time, through my ex, I found out what my friend's wife really thought of him, how she basically cheats on him, etc...oh yeah and she would constantly bad mouth me as well without cause. I promised my ex that I'd never say anything to my best friend. Anyways, just found out that she continues to demean me and even bashes her friend(my ex). I'm kind of tempted to tell my friend all the crap I know...I won't though, it's not going to solve anything. Ugh, this sounds like high school.