((((((((((rita))))))))))))),
you are such an inspiration to me in my recovery - i have no doubt that whatever you do will be the right thing - i just wanted to share about my experience last wednesday in my favorite alanon meeting - the speaker has about 6 years in recovery and she shared in the most magnificent way - she started by saying that the last 20 years had plenty of nightmares but she wanted to focus on how alanon helped her in HeR recovery so she just went through the 12 steps and how she applies them to her life - it was incredible - beginners shared how they finally got IT - old timers were impressed - i could have listened to her share for hours longer - there were over 45 people in there and everyone of them was truly impressed - just a thought of how to do it...
let us know how you handle it - and as i said i have no doubt it will be awesome...
with love,
sue