Skeeter, a drug counselor, or an addiction specialist. Call your regular doctor, and tell him you need an addiction specialist. Or ask a regular doctor to guide you in the right direction. Explain your situation and ask what you should do. That's what I would do. Yes those oxy's make people nasty. I have another friend who is doing the exact same thing your husband is doing, and I argued with him last week. He is fuming at me, and I don't care. I told him to get help and to take care of his substance abuse problem. He turned it all around on me. But, I'm sober, and have been for years. I feel for you, cause your living with a big problem. It's awful. I sure hope your husband realizes that he needs help. It's only a matter of time before the poop hits the fan with him. It's like a time bomb waiting to go off. I'm sorry you have to go through this. Addiction is a brain disease, and addicts in active addiction are impossible to reason with.