Bam~ Hugs to you my Friend :ghug3 You know, I don't do AA or follow any specific program. I also believe there is a God. HOWEVER my views are that we are all equal, whether you are gay or straight, no matter what race. IMO as long as you don't harm others, why does it even matter? I believe in being a good person, I believe in being there for each other, and I believe in loving one another. Honesty, compassion, love, those are the things that matter. I have Friends that are Mormon, Catholic, and Atheists. Their common thread is that they are all good people, who bring joy to my life and are there when I need them. To ME that is what matters, who you are at heart~
Everyone needs to find their own way and do what's best for them. Just keep taking it day by day, do the best you can, and lean on those who care about you for support =)