A reprieve!! Assuming our alleged 5-8" snowfall does not materialize, which I doubt it will, I am going to that banquet tomorrow. And best of all: ex won't be there!!! Yay!!! Sadly, his mom has cancer and will be having surgery (so he claims... I know she has cancer but honestly, if he's lying about the surgery, it is a lie I will gratefully accept). Having him and a cash bar was going to be tough. And I didn't want to see him drink, either. He has enough problems, a relapse would be bad news.
The thing is, he's really been quite supportive of me getting c/s and I try to be supportive of him (he tends to have more trouble saying no, I think, and it is hard to watch him relapse when I'm doing ok). I think in our phone call this week we actually laid the grounds for a civilized friendship, eventually. But... I'm not done being sour grapes yet.
