Originally Posted by
michelle01 
It's no joke Katie. Blame AA or 12 steps all that you like but it is really down to you where you go from here. I'm a reasonable person but this is all going too far.
Anyway can see I'm only feeding into this here.
Just curious, but do you go to AA?
It seems to me (although I could be wrong) that 12 step people see me throwing thousands of dollars away as no big deal and that I should not pursue this.
It also seems to me (although I could be wrong) that those with a secular bent see the injustice in deceiving someone who is clearly not an AA person into a rehab based on the 12 steps, especially when I was very upfront about not wanting anything to do with the 12 steps.